The other day, one of my quotes was featured on
Art Biz Blog, a blog about well, art business. The question was about how to get others to take you and your art work seriously.
Getting others to take you and your work seriously is an interesting situation for a lot of artists. Many of us have friends and family who support our "hobby", but never really think of it as more than that. Then there are the colleagues from school and/or other art related ventures who do take you seriously. And then, there are gallery and shop owners. Now this is a fun one. Some of them loooove the work the way it is. Others want you to
completely change it. A few just want a little added detail here and there. Perhaps all of these situations are just what I've experienced.
One family member kept asking, years ago, what I would do after I finished my degree. Go for a teaching degree? Maybe law school! After politely responding, I finally told him "look, I'm not spending $60,000 to not use my degree. I need you to support me on this", and that worked. Another family member has always been supportive of my work, constantly encouraging me to educate myself and think about making jewelry full time instead of looking for a "back-up" career. This has always made me feel positive, inspired, and hopeful.
My friends love my work. I am constantly encouraged by them. They are my advertisers, wearing my pieces that they have received for birthdays and holidays. I have one friend in particular who I turn to in times of strife. He is the most honest, blunt friend I have, and has told me in the past when my work needed help. I have grown, and he has helped me in many ways. I always know he will be honest, and it helps that he indeed loves my work and tells me what an amazing artist I am and to not let anyone get me down. He is a rock for me. It helps that he is also an amazing
film maker and designer.
Many gallery and shop owners have loved my work. But, I have been faced with those (one) who wanted me to make a lot of changes. I must acknowledge that when I approached him, I was not as solidified in my ideas and direction as I am now, and I think his reaction would be different now, but the comments that were made, and the fact that he was telling an artist how to change their work definitely made me re-think my desire to have my work in his gallery. It showed a lack of respect for my artistic integrity, and I know that I am a damn good metalsmith. Others, who carry my work and have requests for little changes are different--they are wanting little enhancements because they know what sells in their stores, and I can definitely respect that and work with them.
So, in the face of people that cannot see your art for what it is, turn to those who are supportive and encouraging. Then, really look at your work and remember what it took to get you to where you are. Remember the hurdles and struggles, and remember your skills. And then, embrace yourself and say "I am a damn good artist!" And always, always remember, that you can't please everyone (it's just like with food).